Hi,Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds implausible but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost obliged to return your call.Cool huh?...I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to mend their relationship
So I am going to answer..."How do I getmy ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"BUT...***********WARNING!***********In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy
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If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.****************What NOT to Say!****************
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.and worse...Puts you in a terrible 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like"Frank, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."And the EMERGENCY-"Candy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those strategies?So, I won't go on and on.************************************
How To Use Curiosity & Self InterestTo Your Advantage***********************************Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are*Curiosity &*Self Interest And here's the KEY SECRET!When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.In a friendly tone:"Hi Frank. It's Candy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?Frank will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?""What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...Before you call you need to do the"Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.It can be any littlel thing...but it needs to be plausible.But even more importantly...************2nd WARNING!************Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of MakingUp System BEFORE you call
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If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it properly.Ok?So what I am saying is...What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.Comprendez?Have a PLAN!==http://gazzbizzle.makingup.hop.clickbank.net
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Friday, 13 February 2009
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